Despite the pain and disappointments and a sense of loss as big as the sky and all the unrealized dreams and the profound absence, June 20 remains Cailean’s birthday. As such, June 20 endures as a central day in our lives, the day that he first was given to us and the day on which each year he grew older and wiser and more indispensable to our family. Happy birthday Buddy. love, DAD. P.S. Clemens pitches today.